Pre-judging

I’m not sure a white man should post about prejudice during Black History Month. But here are two stories about prejudice, one that brags on my family, one that shows my failings: My great uncle made the trek from Mexico to visit back when I was in college. We didn’t get to see Uncle Dick much, but I certainly made …

King David was a redneck.

Swept under the rug Rednecks have a communication problem. It may be one you share as a leader. Following is how to address that communication problem. But first, a tragic cautionary tale from a famous redneck: King David. King David’s son, Amnon, raped his half-sister, Tamar. Amnon method was to pretend to be sick and ask their father to send …

Fast Company on the power of vulnerability

An incredibly successful client had an employee team blow up. They were originally excited to be tasked by management to address a big employee headache. It was to improve a process that touched a lot of people in the organization. And then the team self-destructed. It was due to poor communication and ego. (But isn’t it almost always that?) The …

Want fulfilling work? Take naming seriously.

Made to Work I was sitting across the desk of a man who had worked his way up in a corporation to be managing partner. He ran one of the company’s locations, had a minority stake and participated in leadership’s inner circle.  He was facing retirement. And he was not happy about it.  He had done well for himself and …

Emotional Intelligence primer

This is a lovely summary of Daniel Goleman’s seminal work on Emotional Intelligence. It starts with what and who, then moves into why, EI matters. Great quotes from the book are listed at the bottom. I’m posting it here because it’s good stuff … and also because it ties in directly to our current podcast series on “The Lost Tools …